What Xbox Game to get (Risen/Dragon age origins) ?

I am looking for realism in gameplay mainlyWhat Xbox Game to get (Risen/Dragon age origins) ?
if you HAD to choose between those, it would be Dragon Age Origins...but i would prefer Borderlands



Here is a description of Borderlands:



Borderlands is a game coming out on October 20, 2009 by the developer team Gearbox and the publisher 2K. The game brings you to a planet called Pandora where you will find harsh and cruel decisions to make and creatures that are almost unimaginable. The game has an unlimited amount of items to gather, thanks to an A.I. (Artificial Intelligence) program which will create its own weapons. There are four characters to choose from; Brick (Tank), Mordecai (Stealth), Lilith (Light), and Roland (Soldier). You can customize your character to your liking, choose a different character, and the terrain of the world is randomly generated. All of those things add up to a lot of replay value. With 4 player co-op through split-screen, LAN, and internet, it makes Borderlands an even greater experience. So imagine billions of guns, character customization, co-op, and a concept art style to make the game unique. On top of all of that, the game will have vehicle combat and customization to serve up some variety and choice. Borderlands is coming out in October, so pre-order it today, and get in on the game that will change the Role Playing and Shooter genre together.





...i made that up ^^